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“What a Week”

From: Seth Dillingham In Response To: Top of Thread.  
Date Posted: Sunday, September 24, 2000 11:33:21 AM Replies: 1
   
Enclosures: None.

This past week was incredibly intense, and it's sapped all my energy. Let's review!

In the "emotional background", there's been a big fight/argument simmering between a few people in my extended family, caused by people saying the wrong things to the wrong people. Stubbornness, pride, anger, loose lips, and an apparent lack of self-awareness has prevented this storm from blowing over.

On Sunday, my company released the first version of our Event Calendar in Conversant, which was a very hopeful and emotional time for us because we've been working on it for months.

On Monday, Wynona finally gave birth to three adorable kittens, but expelled her uterus ("prolapsed uterus") in the process, and it had to be removed surgically. She's recovering very nicely, and takes excellent care of her kittens, but it was very scary.

On Tuesday or Wednesday, we found out that $160 had been stolen from our bank account by someone we trusted implicitly, who had access to my wallet and therefore my ATM card. This was both shocking, depressing, and totally unexpected. Unlike most of the other events of the week, there is no "good side" to this bit of stupidity.

On Thursday, I went for a bike ride and was feeling great... but I broke a spoke after less than four miles, and had to return home. This is certainly the smallest of the week's events, but it still contributed because it added a headache (I was forced to use my $100 gift certificate on a new wheel instead of clipless pedals) and prevented me from dealing with my stress via my preferred method.

On Friday morning, I received the phone call I've been waiting for since May. A huge prospective customer, one of the largest companies in the world, finally decided to approve a large project proposal and has already opened a purchase order. They wanted an invoice, immediately (and they got it)! It's almost too good to be true, and I'm not sure if it has really sunk in yet, but they want us to get started ASAP. (This is a turning point for Macrobyte and Conversant, but I can't give more details of it yet.)

On Saturday, for various reasons, the problems in the extended family erupted once again, and a few people said some very angry words about each other. Many of the people in my family are extremely intelligent and energetic... but sometimes we're not very wise and say things that we know we're going to regret, even before we say them.

Also on Saturday, I tried to call my brother Jed at our friend Mark's house, and a strangely familiar voice answered the phone. It was my best friend from years earlier, Darren (Mark's brother)! That totally took me by surprise, as nobody knew he was coming up for a visit from Houston where he moved five or six years ago. Mark and Darren and his wife Angie came over to visit for a few minutes that afternoon, but unfortunately that's all the time we had together. Hopefully, we'll do a better job of keeping in touch from now on.

This week has drained as much from Corinne as it has from me, so we're both hoping that the next week will be boring. :-)


Discussion Thread:
  • My Friend, Dave Bilello (by Seth Dillingham at 9/28/2000)

    In my rundown of how topsy-turvy last week was, I somehow forgot to mention one of the biggest items

    • RE: My Friend, Dave Bilello (by Donald W. Larson at 9/28/2000)

      Seth, My prayers are with you and your friend's recovery. Don

    • Re: My Friend, Dave Bilello (by Philippe Martin at 9/28/2000)

      Sorry for your friend, Seth! Brrrrr! That's scary! :-( Flip -- ______________________________________________________________________

    • RE: My Friend, Dave Bilello (by Greg Pierce at 9/28/2000)

      > My friend and former roommate, Dave Bilello, told us two weeks > ago (Wednesday, September 13)

    • Status Update on Dave (by Seth Dillingham at 9/29/2000)

      Last night another status email was sent about Dave's condition. He didn't have a heart attack, thankfully,

    • Quick Update on Dave (by Seth Dillingham at 10/6/2000)

      My friend Dave Bilello is out of the ICU, and all of the tubes have been removed. He still has a ways

    • Final Update on Dave (by Seth Dillingham at 10/15/2000)

      Dave came home this week, he's back in his apartment with his roomies Mark and Jed. He spent a little

      • Re: Final Update on Dave (by Sean McMains at 10/16/2000)

        Dave came home this week, he's back in his appartment with his roomies Mark and Jed. He spent a little

      • RE: Final Update on Dave (by Donald W. Larson at 10/16/2000)

        Seth, It's always good to hear a person is doing better after a serious illness. Thanks for the update

    • Dave's At It Again (by Seth Dillingham at 10/8/2001)

      My Friend Dave Bilello, who had his stomach removed last year, is back in the hospital again. They're

      • Re: Dave's At It Again (by Duncan Smeed at 10/8/2001)

        >They're not sure what's going on yet, but the doctors have seen >spots on his liver in the XRAYs.

      • Dave's Liver (by Seth Dillingham at 10/9/2001)

        The latest report on Dave is that he has a tumor in his liver, and the biopsy they did today didn't

        • RE: Dave's Liver (by Donald W. Larson at 10/10/2001)

          Seth, I am sorry to hear of your friend's continuing health problems. I hope there is relief soon for

      • It's Cancer (by Seth Dillingham at 10/11/2001)

        Corinne and I just got back from the hospital. Dave's biopsy results came back, and he has liver cancer

        • RE: It's Cancer (by Donald W. Larson at 10/11/2001)

          Seth and Corinne, I am sad to hear this news. I can only hope that Dave gets all the help he needs and

      • Dave Update (by Seth Dillingham at 10/14/2001)

        I saw Dave tonight. He looks really bad. In fact, I was speechless when I first walked into the room.

        • RE: Dave Update (by Azzor at 10/15/2001)

          Hi Seth, This is all dejá vu for me. My stepfather died on saturday morning after a 2 year battle with

          • RE: Dave Update (by Donald W. Larson at 10/15/2001)

            Azzor, My sympathies on your father's passing. Your story is very moving and thoughtful. Thanks for

          • RE: Dave Update (by Seth Dillingham at 10/15/2001)

            This morning, Azzor said: >Walking the walk with someone in that situation is an experience >to be avoided,

            • RE: Dave Update (by Donald W. Larson at 10/15/2001)

              Seth said: I guess I haven't made one thing clear enough: Dave's not expected to last more than a few

      • Saying Goodbye to My Friend, Dave Bilello (by Seth Dillingham at 10/17/2001)

        I just received a terrible phone call. My friend and brother Dave Bilello died just a few minutes ago.

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